The Origins Of Wedding Favors
Offering wedding favors is an old practice believed to have started with European aristocrats. Referred to as bonbonnieres at that time, these small gifts were distributed by the bride and groom to their guests as a token of appreciation for participating in the wedding ceremony or reception.
Modern wedding favors can be traced back to these bonbonnieres, which were small crystal or porcelain boxes at times adorned with valuable stones. Inside would be sugar cubes or some other type of delicate confection. While it all may seem cheap today, if still cute, in those days sugar was pretty expensive and also held to be of medicinal benefit and such gifts would have been very welcome.
Today’s tradition of offering wedding favors got started when sugar became an ever more widespread commodity and couples of modest means embraced the practice. This is when almonds had become the content of choice for a bonbonniere! A classic favor for us, therefore, would include presenting five Jordan almonds inside a fancy box wrapped in elegant fabric. But since those times the idea of offering gifts to wedding guests has expanded greatly to feature just about anything imaginable, from signed framed photographs of the couple or wedding ceremony as a group to themed dice and playing cards – to symbolize the hope for good luck in marriage!
Scented candles and soaps, compilation discs of the music played at the reception, wine glasses full of assorted candies…because of such expanded notions of what constitutes a wedding favor, it has, ironically, become more difficult for some couples to select just the right gifts for their guests. The trick is always to present something that can serve as an appropriate souvenir of the occasion that’s also reflective of the couple’s tastes while being of some tangible value to the guest as well. No easy feat for perfectionists, to be sure, but surely the easiest part of the whole wedding!

